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No gf, no friends, it's hard to meet new people. Tinder and other apps don't work. Idk even if I travel somewhere I'm alone

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm sick of hearing this dumb advice tbh

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

The biggest is living in a sparsely populated area without good (or at times, any) transportation options. Add in money and solitary-or-niche hobbies for good measure.

There is also probably a point to be made about not having previous luck with friends in school, or romance not once ever coming naturally.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Many can't do it. Plus is not a guaranteed solution

[–] gibmiser 8 points 1 week ago

Buddy, I hate to say it but there is no guaranteed solution. This advice is the best bet without knowing your life story. Do what works for you, but don't give up and try different things, even things that are hard or scary.