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So over thanksgiving my brother-in-law was talking about how he's currently going through the training to become a cop (being fast tracked for reason below) and I'm not quite sure how I feel about that. On one hand, I'm firmly in the ACAB camp. On the other hand, if somebody is going to be hired a cop, he seems like the kind of person that would do the least harm.

Frist off, he is an MP in the army and has been for several years so he already has more and better training/dicipline than most cops out there. He has actual training in conflict deescalation and proper restraint methods that don't kill people. Unlike most cops he actually has real firearm training so he can be trusted not to shoot at falling acorns or blow an infants head off in an altercation. He has actual medical training, which most cops aren't required to have.

Outside of training he also does seem like a decent guy. He's not an agressive macho shitbag like most cops and he does what he can to help people. He does strike me as leaning slightly conservative but he also lives in a rural area of a red state so that's to be expected. I don't think he's a trump supporter but if he is then he's smart enough to keep his mouth completely shut about it even after the election (which trump supporters usually aren't).

So I'm kind of torn on this one. On one hand, our current policing system is rotten to the core and he's someone looking to be a part of that. On the other hand, even though the current system needs to be burned down and rebuilt, we do need some form of police force and he seems like someone who would do the least harm in that roll.

So yeah, I'm not sure how I feel about that. I would be interested to hear what y'all think though. Have any other lemmings experienced similar or have family members who are cops?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The point of ACAB isn't to take it literally. It's a reminder that a whole fucking lot of cops, particularly in the USA, are bad. And the problem is that when you're dealing with an individual cop at an individual interaction, you don't know which you're dealing with. And you won't until it's too late.

So the smartest thing to do is, with any interaction with police, clam up and lawyer up. No matter what. Because you don't know if they're asking questions because they're investigating someone else or investigating you. And when the latter, the bad cops (and remember, you don't know which kind you've got!) will cheerfully lie and cheat and distort and generally railroad you to fit their theory.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

But people do take it literally. If the phrase doesn't match the intended meaning a different phrase is needed

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's one HELL of a can of worms to be opening. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush isn't about birds, nor hands, for example.

Perhaps people should just learn?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

Oh so it's all metaphors not blanket statements, I see.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago

Yes. That's exactly what I said.

🙄

I guess this is what happens when people grow up with video games instead of people.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Think about it this way; you meet a cop in an unexpected situation. You do not know this cop. Should you trust that this cop has your best interest at heart, and treat them as a fellow comrade? Certainly not if you want to live!

ACAB because if you do not make that assumption, you will get killed by one of the bastards and they will get away with it. If you want to get deeper into philosophy, we can talk about how all cops are complicit in a system that grants them limitless freedom to terrorize the populace, making even the nice ones inherent class traitors, but the simplest truth is ACAB is a motto that keeps people alive.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

"Don't trust strangers" is just as well then. Still a generalization but people need a reminder because sometimes terrible things happen. Doesn't sound as cool though.

"All strangers are stranglers" is overkill but it has a nice punch to it and grabs attention. But then you have to explain in long comments how it's not really ALL strangers and they're not REALLY stranglers every time we just want people to be very cautious when interacting with strangers just to make sure they can avoid being strangled if they are indeed dealing with one. It's not meant to be literal there is truth in there if you ignore parts of it.

Isn't that exhausting?

I want police reform and an end to shitty cultures in bad police departments. And I want unjustified killings to end as much as you do, truly I do. But I can't get behind the phrase ACAB even though alternatives don't sound as bold in a protest.