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This man is probably an asshole and this woman is probably smarter than him.
If she's using ChatGPT to try and understand behavioural psychology, she's not smarter than him.
It would be one thing to go off and do some reading and come back with some resources and functional strategies for OP to avoid argumentative fallacies and navigate civil discourse, but she's using a biased generative AI to armchair diagnose her boyfriend.
"you don't have the emotional bandwidth to understand what I'm saying" okay, so what if he doesn't, now what lady? Does ChatGPT have a self development program so your boyfriend can develop the emotional intelligence required to converse with you?
Picking apart an argument is not how you resolve an argument, ChatGPT is picking it apart because she's prompting it to do that, where as a therapist or couple's counsellor would actually help address the root issues of the argument.
He's probably gaslighting her and she doesn't have anyone else to turn to for a reality check.
His question amounts to 'how can I continue to shape her reality with my narrative?'
It doesn't matter what chatgpt or anyone else says, he ought to be able to answer reasonable questions. Note that he doesn't provide any specific examples. He would get roasted in the comment section.
or...they're both assholes and she's a gaslighting psychopath. just going off what evidence is at my disposal.
at this point if you're with a partner that refuses to acknowledge your needs in the relationship there's literally no reason to remain in the relationship.
Like her need for him to answer reasonable questions? Why does the origin of the question pose a threat and why doesn't he give examples? He's like the rando poster who says 'hey guys I forgot the passcode to my iPhone, got a workaround for that?' okay buddy, so you stole a phone then.