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I've seen tables flipped, tv sets punched through, furniture thrown. And that's just in the home.

How does one get to a place mentally where burning and destroying things, over a sportsball game seem a reasonable thing to do?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I mean people cry over movies and tv shows. The line between fact and fiction, real and not real, important and inconsequential is pretty blurry in our minds.

[–] FooBarrington 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The difference is that movies and TV shows are often specifically made to elicit those reactions. Storytelling is essentially a hack that uses our emotions to implant lessons.

The same can't be said for sports events.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Seriously!? A Cinderella team spends a full year working their way to the sweet 16 and perhaps eventually the final four? Then loses by one point. Do you not see the struggle, the passion, the determination and the heartbreak in that?

Or a champion tennis player, significantly past her prime, coming back to championship after multiple years out and winning the title.

Or two soccer superstars at the absolute peak of their field going head to head. Can you not sense the tension, and suspense as these two juggernauts battle it out to see who comes out on top?

Or a man, born without arms, overcoming adversity at all points in his life to become the fastest swimmer and winning the gold.

Do you not see how sport can be an allegory for the human condition? The struggle, the heartbreak that comes with failure, the celebration of success, the toll of aging.

If not, I challenge you to take up a sport for a year, just a year. Try to get as good as you can with it. Celebrate your successes. Reflect on your failures. Document your milestones as you progress . Try not to give up. Make friends along the way. Become the true definition of an amateur. Living through your own experiences, you may discover that sport is full of emotion.

[–] FooBarrington -2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Dude, the purpose of sports events isn't to rile people up and have them damage property. The purpose is to entertain. You understand the difference, right? Or do you go apeshit and break all your belongings whenever you're watching a movie?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Way to completely miss my point.

[–] FooBarrington -3 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The difference is that movies and TV shows are often specifically made to elicit those reactions. Storytelling is essentially a hack that uses our emotions to implant lessons.

The same can't be said for sports events.

What part of this did I miss?

[–] FooBarrington 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The part where sports events aren't specifically made to elicit aggression?

The OP claimed that aggression caused by sports events is comparable to e.g. crying due to movies. Movies are specifically made to elicit crying. Sports events are not specifically made to elicit aggression. Which part is difficult for you to understand?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

And I replied to you, specifically, regarding sports not being a hack on our emotions.

I suppose this begs the question, do you burn couches when a movie takes an emotional turn?

I have no contribution to why certain people do so around sports, other than to say 20% of the population also believes that the earth is flat, that is to say, they’re morons.

[–] FooBarrington 1 points 1 month ago

I didn't say whether sports are a hack to our emotions or not, but it sure as shit isn't made to make you aggressive.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Everything around sports is made to make you loyal to the team and be emotionally attached to the results.

[–] FooBarrington 1 points 1 month ago

Yes, and that's different from everything around sports being made to make you aggressive.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

For team owned by some gereatric white paraaites leaching taxpayer funds to the stadium

Middle age cucks need to wake the fuck up

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wait till he hears about hollywood

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago

hollycreeps also are able to extract huge concessions from "movie" cities because "jobs"