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You reply in the comments, and i try to guess your age based on a short conversation we have. That's it!

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[–] Lifecoach5000 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Early 20s!

I glaned through your post history but I’m not sure how spot on I am at all.

Since we’re in casual conversation I gotta say something regarding the “girls taking a shit” post. That has always been a personal mind trick for me when I’ve caught myself idolizing people I’m attracted to or thinking they are out of my league. I just remember “hey, she takes nasty shits just like the rest of us. Probably even nastier.” Puts me in check and brings me back down to reality if I’m nervous when interacting with someone. Anyways, thought I would just over share.

[–] GrammarPolice 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Good guess. I'm 19.

Also, how did you know about that post? I thought it was supposed to be deleted by the mods. It just hit me like a fucking truck all of a sudden and i was getting shade for it in the comments like wtf, this is groundbreaking stuff guys. Sabrina Carpenter? She takes shits. Jennifer Lawrence? Takes shits. And there's no way it could be classy. But your mind trick seems like it might solve my approach anxiety problem, so thanks for that.

[–] Lifecoach5000 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Oh I can’t actually see the post itself. But if I click on your user profile, I can see all your replies to that post still. I am using the Voyager app FYI

[–] GrammarPolice 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Hmm I haven't tried Voyager. I'll see. But i still have to guess your age. I would say early to mid 20s, so 21-26. A specific age would be 24, but it's mostly a guess

[–] Lifecoach5000 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yeah very wrong. I am quite a bit older. Good try!

[–] GrammarPolice 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] Lifecoach5000 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] GrammarPolice 2 points 4 months ago

What the fuck? How am i so off? 40s?