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Randomly made a little post on Reddit that cloned one I made on lemmy, and it really showed the difference in user. I brought a screen protector and mentioned it didn't have glue and got a comment from each platform regarding the same issue that really made me realise the difference in communities and how tired I've become of the whole "well ackually" mentality of Reddit.

Lemmy comment, just asking a question and provides a solution trying to help: "Is it perhaps static cling, or do you have to apply with a water/soap solution?"

Reddit comment just randomly guessing and making out I'm a moron who doesn't know how screen protectors work despite me saying in the description I'd done so, got 14 upvotes on a 20 upvoted post, so this is basically the vibe of that sub I guess.

"I'm inclined to believe that you didn't peel the right side. "

This is my rant for the evening, think I'll go back to not bothering with Reddit any more, maybe I am stupid :D.

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[–] zeppo 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Some subs on Reddit are unpredictable. You may get totally different responses and it sometimes seem to depend what the first responses are. a couple of times I’ve made a post and the first answer is some sort of scolding “well you should’ve known better!”, And then everyone votes that up and the next five replies are the same… So I just deleted it, and reposted at a different time of day two days later, and the replies are helpful, sympathetic and supportive.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

There's a crowd mentality on Reddit it completely depends on if your first vote is an up or downvote. After you get a downvote I don't think anyone even reads your point they just add their own.

I think this is true because I've deleted my comments posted the exact thing again and this time it gets positive karma.

[–] zeppo 2 points 3 months ago

Right. I think people just see the downvote and pile on. It's easier than actually reading the post and figuring out the person's demeanor and whether it's sarcastic and so on. There are a few other dynamics about that. Some people look for people whose posts are downvoted so they can chide them, scold them, insult or argue with them. I have had comments that are originally misinterpreted or targeted for ideology that end up turning around, though. Sounding rational or clarifying in replies sometimes works, as long as the comment wasn't too far down before other people actually read it. If you get a defensive or insulting attitude, though, there's nothing people on reddit like downvoting more than that.