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[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

In all seriousness, where the line between funny and offensive is drawn is completely subjective. My line is obviously different than others. I didn't feel that my puns were personally directed at anyone and I didn't see them as perpetuating any harmful stigma or stereotypes. It uses a word I wouldn't actually use in daily life but the pun wouldn't work otherwise. Life has a lot of legitimate malicious people out there that there's no need to split hairs to find more. There is no subjective way to look at what the IDF did in this case. It is objectively malicious and evil. I didn't expect my puns to be the thing that upset people.

I thought of another joke. Being mindful, I've hidden the punchline. You've been warned!

Say the guy here was Hamas. Do you think he'd carry...a .38 Special?

[–] sandbox 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I understand that you probably don’t really recognise the impact of ableist slurs, but as someone who has been bullied, harassed, beaten up and sexually assaulted by people mocking me by using those slurs, they trigger a bit of a traumatic response. It’s not that they’re directed at anyone in particular, it’s just that they’re never possible to use in reference to disabled people without being, at the very least, extremely patronising, and extremely dehumanising at the worst.

I completely get that you didn’t intend any harm, and you were trying to criticise the IDF in your own way, and I’m really sympathetic towards that: fuck the IDF, 100%, they’re incredibly evil.

All I am doing is just asking you to please reconsider using ableist slurs as jokes in the future, that’s all. We’re all human, we all make mistakes, and it’s a completely normal reaction to protect our own ego when someone tells us that we hurt them in some way, so I don’t blame you for your reaction, but please try to overcome that knee-jerk reaction <3

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

It's not a knee jerk reaction. You're one person out of 8 billion. I'm treating your request the way I'd treat any request made to me by a random person on the internet. <3

[–] sandbox 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

How many people are you willing to harm before you change your behaviour? What’s the trade off in human suffering compared to the positives of making your joke?

[–] jorp 0 points 4 months ago

It was one thing when you were just constantly clowning but now you're re-investing heavily in just being an asshole.

It's a fine line and you don't seem to have the ability to pull it off.