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It's when the Americans already went to bed but the Europeans didn't wake up yet. I'm in South Korea and around lunch even sorting by "New" doesn't give me any new posts, sometimes up to one hour.

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[–] sh__ 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Do you sleep in the day, or is it just hard to get any at all?

[–] Cris_Color 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I realize now my wording was unclear 😅. The former. I go to bed around 9am-12pm right now, and wake up around 7pm-9pm.

I have a very weird schedule, but I do sleep. It's isolating because my daytime seldom overlaps that of others, if I never slept at all I'd have TONS of time to spend with folks

[–] sh__ 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Ah, yeah I could see how that could be a challenge. Hopefully you can at least talk to people in the morning or before they go to bed.

[–] Cris_Color 3 points 8 months ago

I do, it's always nice getting to say good morning to folks as I'm on my way to bed. And sometimes I end up skipping sleep in order to do something that requires I be awake during normal hours (like doctor's appointments, my friends wedding) and its always nice to hang out with folks on those days ☺️

I'm grateful my friends also often stay up later than they normally would to hang out, and I often try to wake early for social time :)