zarathustra0

Yes, this is an example of the kind of comment that someone might interpret to mean a devaulation of the problems they experience. Not really something that is helpful to have in a post about grief at a lost child.

Honestly, whete I am coming from is that I think you are more aware of the injustices that you face than injustices others face. It is tricky to really empathise with the 'other' or 'out' group.

No to all of what you just said.

You've gone off the deep end. What you have written above is so filled with rage I would take a break from this discussion.

I accept that you truly believe what you have written above, but it doesn't help people heal to play victim olympics. And it doesn't help anyone when you dismiss their expression of the systemic injustices they face.

Think of the structural issues which have caused this to be the case. Blaming men for not achieving an externally defined target isn't going to help anyone.

Hate the game, not the player.

I like the suggestion that we concern ourselvrs more with the quality of men's internal lives, but I do worry we're still objectifying men as 'the problem'.

Immiseration of the population seems to be the name of the game for the nasty party.

We're all sociopaths now.

Don't threaten me with a good time.

Well I recommend mythTV. It has been a while since I used it but it was pretty good. I did get it working with a USB tv tuner I once had but that did require building kernel modules manually.