soloner

joined 2 years ago
[–] soloner -1 points 2 days ago

Nah not at all. But I get how that could have come across that way.

[–] soloner 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Famous story of a son who broke both arms and the mom felt bad he couldn't masturbate so she started jerking him which led to more...

It's very fucked up story. But whenever a similar topic comes up someone has to say "I bet he had broken arms" or something like that.

Similar one is "shoes came off so he's definitely dead" whenever some fall or other force throws someone to the ground.

It was funny at one point... Maybe like 6 years ago. But like jfc there's no original thought, just echo chamber zingers.

Oh another one: "I also choose this guy's dead wife"

[–] soloner 28 points 3 days ago (8 children)

A lot more comments like reddit that are the quick (very tired) zingers. I was happy to get away from that but I'm sort of thinking of putting lemmy down if it gets worse.

I don't need your "this." Or "broken arms" or "that's insulting to trash" etc.

It's beyond tired. But it gets up voted and can dominate the comments section. I appreciate threads like this one that promote actual discussion.

[–] soloner 5 points 1 week ago

Civilization 6, Helldivers 2, fallout 4, and elden ring are all in the several hundreds of hours for me. I've got some decent time into cyberpunk 2077, valehim, no mans sky, and the wither 3 wild hunt too.

Nothing approaching 1k hrs yet...

[–] soloner -3 points 1 week ago

I'm happy to call out bullshit reddit tropes. "That's not fair to X" is soooo tired 🥱💤

[–] soloner -1 points 1 week ago

This is offensive to puppies

[–] soloner -3 points 1 week ago

I find this is offensive to future reference

[–] soloner -1 points 1 week ago

I think that's offensive to meds

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I do like large gatherings, but I don't really do well meeting people and making friends in them. I find it too chaotic and difficult to "be myself" with so many people. I also feel there tends to be more shallow conversation in these settings making it great for banter and social energy but less great for connecting and getting to know new folks.

I am looking to meet new people to be friends, as in capital F friend, not just a random person I know. Someone who wants to hit me up and go do something fun, check in on me and see how I'm doing, etc.

How do you go about meeting people and finding social settings that foster deeper connections?

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