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[–] needthosepylons 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Ah, that's a convincing point, but I've always felt my answer actually opens up the door for important discussions like :

-Historical // between slavery and prisons -Partial rebuttal of the question itself, or rather, its framing of the issue, my underlining it's completely legitimate to advocate for the abolition of something without having a plug'n'play replacement for it

-Usually, people will follow up by highlighting cases of pedophiles and rapists, which could further be used to frame the discussion with them : who are we talking about?

-If I'm in a bad mood, I'll also ask people : "My brother in Christ, weren't there folks around who thought slavery was indeed created to solve an actual problem?"

But yeah, that's only the first part of my answer, then we'll move to the more grounded post-carceral society discussion.

[–] needthosepylons 3 points 14 hours ago

Well, I can try to clarify here. Some prison abolitionist, activist or scholars, do indeed think there will be a residual proportion on crime that will necessitate kind of spatial segregationi, and, for some, being locked up for a time.

And it's not necessarily conflicting with the abolitionist motto. They say : Well, prisons are buildings, but mostly, they are a social and historical function (punishing the poor, the political opposition, etc.). If we abolish that and there are like 3000 people in prison nationwide, the logic of stockpiling inmates will be gone. Maybe it will be possible to actually do something for them. The gap in punishment between the poor and the rich will be reduced if not gone.

Nevermind the building. If their historical function is gone, prisons are gone.

[–] needthosepylons 1 points 14 hours ago

Ah. I'm not so comfortable with English but yeah, that was what I meant indeed!

[–] needthosepylons 1 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

That's always my first answer indeed. "Well, I'm going to answer your question but first, just think about the abolition of legal slavery a while ago. What would you have thought about someone who would object : "yeah, but what will we replace slavery with ?".

[–] needthosepylons 2 points 1 day ago

Well, that would reduce unemployment.

[–] needthosepylons 6 points 1 day ago

Thanks for taking the time to write such a detailed answer. I agree with you about almost everything.

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On prison abolition (self.asklemmy)
submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) by needthosepylons to c/[email protected]
 

You're a prison abolitionist. You're in a high stakes discussion where you have to answer seriously and be convincing.

Someone asks you : "yeah, but what are we to do with people breaking the law, then? What will you replace prisons with ?"

What will you answer?

Edit : Thanks a lot for your answer, they were very interesting and reflecting different ways to frame a world without prisons.

Except from one or two edgelord hot takes, of course.

[–] needthosepylons 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You seem to be pretty up voted on a regular basis except a few comments. In my humble opinion, most of them would not be explained by a specific reddit hive mind but rather classic moral panics. I mean, I've been campaigning my whole life for prison reform/abolition and that's the typical kind of reactions I've got.. irl. I suppose that's just what you usually get when saying something which deviates from a specific state of public opinion.

Not trying to play ackshually, but there doesn't seem to be anything wrong with your posts/comments, imo.

[–] needthosepylons 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Can we get a sample of these "unpopular opinions"?

[–] needthosepylons 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Isn't the bottom one Mike Patton?!

[–] needthosepylons 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The Edukators!

IMDB

[–] needthosepylons 2 points 1 week ago

Also, quite interestingly, the accurate one should include "depression".

[–] needthosepylons 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Hahaha, superb... owl... superbowl... superb! owl! (for the 5th time, I can't get over this community name)

Also,that owl is... quite superb indeed.

(leaves laughing, you can hear "...superbowl!" as the door closes)

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A story beside (lemmy.world)
submitted 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) by needthosepylons to c/games
 

Today, I'd like to recommend everyone who likes a deep and tragic story to take a look at A Story Beside.

As a disclaimer, I am not affiliated at all with the studio or promo. None of that. I don't even have a yt channel to promote.

I just happened to play this game 2 years ago and it still haunts me with both joy and sadness.

To make it clear how much I loved it : I played it on the high seas, finished it, knew I was never going to play it again (for me, that's the kind of story based/narrative game you only play once), and still bought it on Steam the day after and bought it for a few friends.

While the gameplay is simple and the gfx are nothing to write home about (rpg maker, my first game of the kind), the story is superb and highly emotional. It has a simple point and click interface (definitely NOT my type of games), choices with heavy consequences and mostly non genderlocked romance, IIRC.

But what cracked my heart the most us the VA. It's beautiful behind words, haunting and powerful. It made me understand how VA is important in a game. Some sentences from this game are still with me to this day and randomly pop in my thoughts.

So do yourself a favor and play this one of these days.. Just make sure you have someone you trust close enough, because it can be really heartbreaking sometimes. Or beautiful. Or happy. Depends on your perspective.

Edit : typo in the title of the post >.<

P. S. : If I had one criticism about this game, it would be that some choices are quite obscure. A little thing you said, did or forgot to do at one point can have cataclysmic consequences later on, and it can be frustrating because back then, you didn't even know you were making a choice. I started blind, got a heartbreaking story event, restarted from the beginning with a guide to avoid the.. err.. bad endings.

 
 
 
 

Hello everyone I am an avid practitioners of martial arts. Started with Judo and Jiu Jitsu. Then my health and phisical condition degraded due to external causes. I switched to Aikido for three years and now Tai chi chuan, which I am now strongly committing to.

Aside from obvious positive effects (balance and agility) I wonder what you all think about inner martial arts.

I tend to ingest as little taoist folklore as I can, not because I think it's not interesting, but I want to avoid the exotic sounding mysticism tailored to impress westerners as a kind of new age marketing strategy. Fortunately, my teacher is a medical doctor working in the field of work related injuries.

I know I love Tai Chi Chuan and I truly mean to get better at it, but I can't ignore all the... weird stuff connected to it (no, Mr. Grand Master, I refuse to think that you single handedly pushed 10 people by the power of chi mastery). At the same time, I've been impressed by how, sometimes, finding adequate balance can make you able to sustain a strong push without even making active use of muscular strength.

So Il just wondering how you feel about this (or the other) inner martial art.

For me, it's a demanding and rewarding practice, full of great health and self discipline benefits and a few truly impressive perks, but with a..weird decorum I can't begin to understand.

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NSA and Ghidra (self.nostupidquestions)
 

Do people trust Ghidra? How come it's been developed by the NSA? From an outsider perspective, that sounds so weird!

Thanks in advance to anyone able to enlighten me!

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Erb election battle (self.showerthoughts)
 

Omg, I suppose ERB was producing their Biden VS Trump rematch video when the democratic nominee changed. That means we may not get an electoral battle this cycle. My day is ruined.

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by needthosepylons to c/[email protected]
 

Why do it seems that pedophilia is, nowadays, percieved as the most vicious crime, along with terrorism? Why not, for example, sexual assault?

I mean it as an actual question, but first I should clarify my intent :

-I'm not advocating for normalizing pedophilia

-I have been a victim of it myself. Luckily, I've mostly recovered from it and live a happy life.

-Because of my political commitments, which are totally unrelated to this question, I've met some old people from the 70s who advocated for the depenalization of consensual sex between minors and adults (if such a thing exist, which can legitimately be doubted).

-I'm friend with one of them but I could never understand how that idea came to their minds. She knows I oppose the very idea. But it got me curious.

What I want to ask is, what, in contemporary history, contributed to make pedophilia the #1 vicious crime, surpassing rape in most consciences (if I'm not mistaken), in your opinion?

Feel free to delete this if that's not acceptable. Also, I didn't include the word "pedophilia" in the title to avoid triggering people who may have such experiences.

 

Poto sérieux change de code

 
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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by needthosepylons to c/gaming
 

Well, as a guy, I've been asked multiple times why I systematically play games female characters in video games, to the point of skipping a game if I'm forced to pay a male one, with a few exceptions (I really liked Albus from Troubleshooters for example). Whenever there's romance in a game, I'll also take the F/F route. Yet, I don't think I fetishize those in general. There's a thing about not liking most M characters in games, but also something about playing someone really different from who I am. We've had an interesting conversation about this with my gf who always plays F characters and woyd never play M.

Although I'm a straight guy, I've always more identified to female friends and characters, although I have a few male friends too. So I'm wondering who else does that (playing a character not matching your gender), and if you found your own explanation.

Edit : It's not really an oversexualization drive for me, I try to play a female character that looks like me, even though I've never thought about actually becoming a woman.

Edit 2 : So far, I think we have, hmm..

  1. Playing someone that differs from one's irl identity
  2. Physical Attractivity
  3. Male character writing and design
  4. Lara Croft effect
  5. Lady Dwarf
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