Ukraine is not committing brutal crimes, not lobbing rockets randomly, hoping to kill anyone, civilian or not
Check your sources bias. Control phrase is "cluster munitions, Donetsk". Russia is faaaar from being free of guilt, but, while they have capability to do this to ALL Ukrainian cities, I don't see any footage of landmines all over Kiyv and Lviv. Another check is to listen to chants(e.g. москаляку на гіляку, смерть русні, etc) of each side. This effectively flips your argument upside down.
Definitely not comparable, though, at least that we can agree.
Just provide fake credentials. In 10+ years of self-hosting I was never asked about it nor ever had any problems with it. Though, it was all for small projects and a personal pages, YMMW.