bluebadoo

joined 2 years ago
[–] bluebadoo 1 points 3 days ago

Totally thought this was an Onion headline!

[–] bluebadoo 22 points 1 week ago (6 children)

We would love a Ted Lasso of Lemmy. Welcome aboard!

[–] bluebadoo 2 points 1 week ago

I’ve used a skin routine from The Ordinary with good results. The most basic would probably be the squalene cleanser and Natural Moisterizing factors. I’ve added the niacinamide and zinc, glycolic acid toner, and most critically for redness Azelaic acid emulsion. Makes my face soooo soft and helps with redness

[–] bluebadoo 1 points 3 weeks ago

I too feel like a crash is impending, but it’s paired with menstrual and medication symptoms and I can’t tell what is what. I want to go back to cannabis, but it’s been 28 days without and I would like to stay that way.

Fatigue flares suck, but I understand pushing through to live up to others needs. hug

[–] bluebadoo 2 points 1 month ago

I think the whole “should I think about fucking you” part is pretty toxic if it’s coming from the mouth of a person you thought was your friend. Yeah, OP makes a generalization about cis people that doesn’t hold water but ultimately all the questions posed leave zero room for any ambiguity that the friend in question needs them to be either a “man” or “woman” in gender which frankly is a poor view on gender. What if they transitioned to non-binary? The friend in question is treating OP like a whole new entity that needs to be reassigned rather than a human who is making subtle adjustments to their social role.

[–] bluebadoo 4 points 1 month ago (4 children)

It sounds like this person thinks your gender is your entire personality, and that by transitioning gender you are becoming an entirely new person. I think it’s normal that they turn to stereotypes and binaries to try and understand something they are unfamiliar with though. The “will we ever hook up” would absolutely throw me off if a friend I trusted said that, and that’s a whole thing to digest alone.

I’ll refrain from giving advice because it wasn’t asked for, but unfortunately yes. Lots of cis people need the boxes and stereotypes in order to interact with others in the “socially correct” way rather than making those determinations on a person by person basis. I think it’s part of the cisheteronorm standard that is still said quietly rather than out loud.

[–] bluebadoo 2 points 1 month ago

Centaur taxi service.

Reborn in denial of their undeath, just assumes everything is just a “flesh wound” a la Black Knight.

Wrong Way to use Healing Magic style cleric that incapacitates their opponents but leaves them at full health.

I’m currently playing a Gith Drakewarden in an Out of the Abyss campaign that was transported to the underdark accidentally by the Astral dragon egg they stole.

[–] bluebadoo 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How do you feel about response to COVID and the CERB payments?

Personally, that was a federal win for me.

[–] bluebadoo 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

We have a moth graffiti tag in my city, and I appreciate the simplicisty of it all

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My little bean, Harlee.

[–] bluebadoo 34 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I’m worried this will embolden the bigots of the North and justify some of the terrifying things happening in Prairie politics with anti-trans laws and involuntary placement of homeless people into mental hospitals (AKA the rise of Sanitoriums).

[–] bluebadoo 5 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I’ll upvote this even though I have zero clue what it is saying cause clearly this is stience

[–] bluebadoo 5 points 3 months ago

Can confirm, felt epic.

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Full shrimp (lemmy.world)
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Say hello to Harlee, the furry shrimp!

 

From bottom to top: Trillium ovatum Oxalis oregana Polystichum mutinum Dicentra formosa Melica subulata

 
 
 
 

Two of my favourite shady forest plants from the PNW!

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