I was never comfortable with that relationship. She was essentially coerced into it because the global government gave him the power to do anything he wanted as long as he said it would help protect humanity. I'm honestly surprised she stayed that long at all. We also only see her through her husband's perspective, which leaves an awful lot about the relationship unsaid and likely misinterpreted.
I think we're just going to disagree on this point, but I do see your point with the other examples earlier
I really enjoyed Determined and Sapolsky's other book, Behave!