Tasks.org and logseq here, ended up being the simplest way after bouncing off grocy and other overly detailed systems.
Tip: before going through with hosting NextCloud, you could get /e/ accounts, they don't give much space but since it's just rebranded NextCloud, you can try it out and see if it works for you.
Currently we use several tasks boards so chores are separate by type (shopping list, maintenance, bills, chores) and logseq's journal on the app makes it flexible to take notes or whatever you need (audio notes, pics, links, etc)
No need, at least on Firefox you can hold down shift (or alt? I never remember) + right click to bypass such restrictions