WaltJRimmer

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[–] WaltJRimmer 15 points 1 year ago

That was one part of a whole that a never got anywhere near finding out the entire story. With that and her stories of being damn near abandoned as a child, it really worried me as to what might have happened to her that she never felt free enough to tell me.

I tried to explain, "Like, no, that's normal." And she was just insistent that it was not. I didn't know about the believing herself to be half-succubus until later, but when I found that out, it kind of clicked into place that something happened to her and she just cannot believe that a normal person should enjoy sex the way she does. And that is... Really troubling.

[–] WaltJRimmer 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I never knew my Set Theory professor was so against workers' rights!

[–] WaltJRimmer 87 points 1 year ago (21 children)

Sadly, with recent events, all I can think about with this is how Linus Sebastion would go on the WAN Show and say things like, "You don't need a union unless you have bad management, and I never want my employees to need a union."

[–] WaltJRimmer 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sadly, with recent events, all I can think about with this is how Linus Sebastion would go on the WAN Show and say things like, "You don't need a union unless you have bad management, and I never want my employees to need a union."

[–] WaltJRimmer 8 points 1 year ago

His NAME is ALEX!

[–] WaltJRimmer 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't remember exactly how old she was, but we were in our last years of university (I failed out, she graduated) so she was definitely in her early twenties, 22-24, somewhere in there.

And, yeah, no, my amateur and as such meaningless guess of a diagnosis was also that part of the delusion was a need to feel special. She talked about how most other people didn't know the truth, they couldn't know the truth, because she had magic power that let her know things about the world that normal humans couldn't. You get that sort of language in conspiracy theorists and other types of people who want to feel special, they want to be in on some secret that everyone else can't be. So I'd say that's definitely part of it. But I also think, especially with her believing in a third parent when she was initially abandoned by her father and effectively abandoned by her mother until her father got custody of her again, I think most of it stems from her trauma as a child. Even that need to feel special, with no real parental figure for many of her formative years (I don't remember how old she said she was when her father regained custody of her), probably stemmed from that lack of anyone encouraging her.

But, ultimately, I don't know. She didn't tell me half of this stuff until we were breaking up. And I'm not a psychologist, and she very much needed one.

[–] WaltJRimmer 36 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you think horoscopes don't make any sense, you're really going to be boggled by its sister, numerology.

[–] WaltJRimmer 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

It really was. While there were bits and pieces of this that came up during the relationship, the bulk of this came out as we were breaking up. She had been abused as a kid, though I'm not sure the extent of that abuse. At the very least, she was abused by being effectively abandoned. She said she fended for herself, mostly eating canned food she got for herself through grade school, things like that.

I was upset for a while, she's not someone I want anything to do with, but mostly I just feel bad for her. She was traumatized as a kid, she receded into a delusion to try and escape that, and her delusion came to define her to the point where she got incredibly defensive if you tried to challenge its reality. She had said that she tried therapy before but that it didn't work because she knew better than the therapists how to deal with her problems, and I'm certain what that actually means is that they tried to talk her out of her delusion and she wasn't having any of it.

I really hope she got the help she needs, but I sadly doubt it.

[–] WaltJRimmer 100 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (20 children)

She didn't just think she was a witch, which I was mostly OK with because religions are weird and stuff, so I thought as long as it doesn't reach the realm of life-affecting problems, it's a non-issue.

She also believed she had friends who were werewolves, she could do magic, the date of your birth determined your personality, because a planet was in retrograde good things were about to happen, vampires started the Red Cross so they could always have access to blood, and, oh yeah, along with her two mortal parents she also had an incubus second father and that she was half-demon and that's why she liked sex when she wasn't supposed to.

That... That girl needed some serious help, but claimed that she was well-adjusted and fit to help other people instead. Because, of course, she was also an empath...

Edit: I want to make something clear that it suddenly struck me I haven't; with all this craziness that she believed, that young woman had her life a hell of a lot more together than I did or do. She graduated university while I flunked out, she found a job while I'm being rejected every time that I apply, she found a low-rent apartment to live in while I'm still living with my folks. Don't get me wrong, girl had some trauma and had some problems. But she was contributing to society while I'm fucking around on the internet because I can't seem to make anything of myself.

[–] WaltJRimmer 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My question isn't what the law says they can do but what they're actually willing to do.

While Georgia has said that Trump is going to get a mugshot, his three other arrests have decided not to do the mugshot, not to do the perp walk, not to this, not to that. He's getting special treatment, and we don't realistically know where that's going to end. And with current law, former presidents get lifetime protection of the secret service, so there is a practicality question for if Trump is locked up.

I'm hoping that the trials bring out the truth, right now I believe the truth to be that he's guilty, and I hope that if he keeps violating the terms of the courts, which he seems deadset on doing, that he's put in jail for that while the trials are ongoing. But I don't necessarily think they will do that even if, on paper, they can.

[–] WaltJRimmer 2 points 1 year ago

OK. I think I see more where you're coming from now. I would say, though, that if the management weren't rushing production and were better, well, managers, problems like that would be less likely to happen. It's not that it would never happen, but from what we've seen of LTT over the years, this isn't an isolated incident. While I like the on-screen personalities of people in their logistics department, the truth is that it's been a mess and has been allowed to continue being a mess. As CEO and owner, ultimately that blame falls on Linus, but it also falls on the head of logistics and other management positions. You could chalk it up to one innocent mistake made by one employee, but it's at least three mistakes compounding on top of each other which are part of a larger system of mismanagement.

[–] WaltJRimmer 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I feel like you think I think that the person who put the block on the table at LTX should be the one being called out. I'm talking about Linus taking responsibility for the toxic management culture at the company, for the management and executives to acknowledge that their treatment of their employees is problematic, and accepting that they are doing things wrong and it needs to change. I'm not talking about a scapegoat and I don't know where you're getting the idea that I am.

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