Ifera

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[–] Ifera 2 points 6 months ago

Bingo. Crossdressing is not necessarily drag. Me and a bunch of my friends from my high school drama club crossdressed because we only had around two women in the club.

And this "Gotcha journalism" is pretty much repackaged populism. Don't give it headlines because someone crossdressed, give it headlines because it is an insult to the separation of powers and literally paves the way for a totalitarian regime to raise.

[–] Ifera 3 points 6 months ago

That is fantastic, personally, I would hace given the turkey a nice umulat(◌̈/¨) to keep up with the times, but your meme skills are still on point.

Never change <3

[–] Ifera 20 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Because it serves a genuine function, because the process poses an unnecessary risk, because there is no way to know how big the penis is going to get when the kid grows up, and that is part of the reason for the foreskin, to have a ton of give so it doesn't happen like it did to my ex. He got circumcised as a newborn, and by the time he finished puberty, his penis grew far more than the leftover foreskin, so he wasn't even able to have full erections without a tremendous amount of pain and sometimes, even tearing.

[–] Ifera 14 points 6 months ago

That one is optional, and I have the best defense mechanism.

[–] Ifera 29 points 6 months ago

Honestly, a lot of that is risk assessment. A fair share of their customers are mentally unwell, and a lot of those are prone to parasocial relations. They can even snap and kidnap, murder, stalk or harass their companions, or at least that is what my cousin who is an escort told me when I asked her about why she was denying a request for a dinner at a fancy restaurant.

Also, a fair share of customers who hire them to a companionship gig to an expensive place, end up getting abusive if they "fail" to "woo" their companion, who didn't even attend with the state of mind to accept a wooing, went there as a businesses transaction.

[–] Ifera 16 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Good, weaponize that autism. That is how I found out I was being abused as well, by documenting and finding patterns, then sharing them with a close and trusted friend, in part because my ex abused me so much and for so long, I lost every shred of self confidence, so I wasn't even trusting my own mind.

We are not broken, we are just different. And we got to play to our strengths. I am truly proud of you and no matter what others might tell you, this is growth.

[–] Ifera 23 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Damn, I sort of feel like saying "Thank fuck he isn't president of MY country", but then I remember how even my local covidiots felt validated by the giant cheese puff, and how Trump is offering carte blanche to companies, for them to pillage and destroy the living conditions of the whole world.

All I can do is shake my head, hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

[–] Ifera 11 points 6 months ago

Dank is entirely subjective, and even if we were born in the same "back then", our danks can be completely incompatible. There isn't an agenda, it is just another extension of capitalism and profitability.

[–] Ifera 2 points 6 months ago

These people's

[–] Ifera 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It is mentioned on the second season of the Netflix one, but it is more relevant in the books, and the UK version AFAIK.

[–] Ifera 6 points 7 months ago

Genetical in the sense that you are programmed to behave like that, not in the sense it has to be yours to prompt said response. Paternity fraud is no joke.

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