Doof

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[–] Doof 3 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Oof. You should do some internal work, this comes off pretty pathetically.

[–] Doof 1 points 8 months ago

Plenty of information out there, they shouldn’t need to take the time to do that for you

[–] Doof 0 points 8 months ago

What a weird response to that….

[–] Doof 9 points 8 months ago

I was in a patient in a day program at a hospital. This program was different types of mental health information and tasks done in groups. One of those groups was about distorted thinking. You’d pick a random ball of paper and read out what it said. A guy pulled out one and read “I’m not worthy” my instinct was to to jump in and say “it’s funny, I hear that and I know it’s wrong and they are worthy but then I hear it and tell myself I’m not worthy.” I guess there was self awareness that I was trying to make them feel better while not derailing the conversation. I didn’t think much of it and about a week goes by.

It’s a rotation of a few people join and a few others leave. This person day to leave he sits next to me almost in tears and thanks me. Said he saw what I did, but it hit him so hard he had to leave to cry in his car. He thanked me.

It’s something I look at and feel pride because I didn’t do it for any other reason other than it just felt right. It’s something when I struggling I can tell myself you made ‘Jason’ feel worthy. Maybe I actually made a difference regardless if it was small.

[–] Doof 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Well if i can give you some advice i have picked up. Be kind to yourself while you do so, it's okay to not be okay and your feelings are valid. Good luck!

[–] Doof 5 points 8 months ago (3 children)

You might just enjoy the process of setting things up. Or if you are like me when my mental health goes bad I tend to organize home/computer/collections and it’s got to the point when I see myself doing it I stop and evaluate myself. How’s you mental health doing?

[–] Doof 2 points 8 months ago

You know sometimes jokes fall flat

[–] Doof 1 points 8 months ago

They don’t tend to recover but they do often move forward. It can be quite inspiring but I keep that to myself.

[–] Doof 2 points 8 months ago

Life is random, and meanness and cold. No matter who you are, death comes with no bias. You have to make life worth living in the now because I have seen the regret and pain in the eyes of the dying far too many times. Also be nice to your kids.

[–] Doof 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Fuss* it’s the best look to not proofread lol but I was just trying to let you know.

[–] Doof 3 points 8 months ago (3 children)

It’s “Fuse” btw

[–] Doof 1 points 9 months ago

You are unfortunately wrong about printed guns, they are way more common and are actually useable now.

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