Beardsley

Okay, I'm fucking dead at this LMAOOO

My wife does this, sleeps to forensic files every single night. But I describe one gore murder from a horror film and she starts gagging. I just don't understand.

He literally asked for something to back up your statements, he's literally acknowledging your viewpoint and would be open to it if you were able to cite any references. If you want "outsiders" to listen to you, you have a responsibility to give them a reason to.

There, no insults, just a suggestion that if you want discourse, you need to have something beyond your opinion to back it up.

"Money"

Depends on your sex.

ba-dum tsssss

"Yeah...... not my job"

FUCK A BITCH, WHAT? FUCK A BITCH.

"Gary, you really need a better way to express your frustrations with Mom."

Rule of thumb when you're trying to get approved for a loan is to disclose only what is asked for (income, debts, etc) the more you say and provide, the higher the risk is of having to do unnecessary legwork.

There's a common understanding between loan processors that is essentially "if it's not a detriment to the loan quality, necessary information like an additional owned rental propsrth, or an underwriting condition, the Underwriter doesn't need to know. This is because the Underwriter is meant to scrutinize every detail of a loan. So something completely useless and innocuous could lead to a delay.

Unless you're getting a cash-out refinance, financial institutions really don't care what you spend your money on. The bank rep especially isn't being paid enough to care.

If you think your home has increased in value enough to lower the LTV to 80% you can typically ask them to do a "drive-by" valuation to confirm.

Talk to your local government about any upcoming mortgage grants. Every community I have worked in has some grant that comes out during specific times each year. Usually just a few grand to cover closing costs, but I've seen some that cover 20% with a 4 year commitment to not sell the house.

There are also loan programs specifically meant for lower incomes; FHA typically has a higher debt-to-income threshold than conventional loans. Now, I still can't afford a house even with that, but I have qualified many people who otherwise would not have made it past the Loan Officer.

I am not defending this, just explaining their perspective, but the institution is basically taking a risk of loss on any loan over 80%. The PMI helps lower the impact on that risk, and is paid by the borrower because they are the risk themselves.

If the bank has to foreclose within 6 months because someone hasn't made their payments, they're not going to get the same value the home was sold for when they put the home to auction. The lower the LTV, the higher the chance is that the bank can at least break even on the total loan given.