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[โ€“] [email protected] 69 points 1 year ago (13 children)
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[โ€“] johsny 58 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

Most unexpected yet reasonable answer in this thread, seriously

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[โ€“] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Honestly, hope more people start fixing their own stuff

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This has inspired me. My Instant Pot has been throwing a lot of errors lately, I bet I can rig something up...

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

You know, of all the things to fix, an instant pot would make me nervous. Don't mess with the safety valve.

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[โ€“] MarigoldPuppyFlavors 38 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Most of my hobbies are geared toward getting away from people so not sure how to answer this one.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Learning how to get better at critical thinking.

I study rhetoric and argumentation for fun. Rhetoric is for understanding how people persuade me, argumentation is for understanding the tactics they use to achieve that goal. I've developed a certain style of rhetoric and argumentation that I like a lot. Essentially, I think people should learn to identify their own assumptions and make them explicit. Far fewer misunderstandings would happen if people know wtf they themselves were saying.

[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Why wouldn't it be? It's not something I'm doing for school or work. It's purely for personal growth and enjoyment, like writing and/or reading.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I got recommended to read Thinking Fast and Slow on lemmy and I've been really enjoying it, much of it is about hidden assumptions and critical thinking

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[โ€“] gsb 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Maybe this isn't a hobby but just hanging out. Video games, movies, road trips, or any type of activity without it being a big deal. No agenda or expectations. Just being social. I miss that from my younger years. Now everyone is busy, tired, and getting together takes a lot of prep.

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[โ€“] GurrenCentauri 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

RPGs that arenโ€™t dnd

[โ€“] TeenieBopper 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's like the blues brothers bit "we've got both kinds of music here. Country and western".

I think pf2e is better in many ways but it also has a lot of the same stuff.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I was literally going to post that exact thing.

Like every part of DND has something that makes me grind my teeth and yet it's so popular! People say it's "easy" and simple and I'm like "WHAT BONUS IS 15 STRENGTH? WHY??"

[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I sadly don't have any programming friends

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[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Reading math books, Linux, Lemmy, and Extreme metal. I have nothing to talk about with people IRL other than the fucking weather (that I actually want to talk about).

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The overlap between math and death metal fans is larger than im comfortable with.

[โ€“] techt 8 points 1 year ago

That's why we have Mathcore. Also if this is you, please check out this programming themed prog album.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Death, Black, Grindcore, Slam, blackened deathmetal, shoegaze, Deathgazeโ€ฆhit me up :D

[โ€“] Cruxifux 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I wish there were more normal people who play magic. Going to any shop to play is always a gamble, half the time the people you end up playing with smell bad or are socially inept, sometimes both. Itโ€™s a fun game if you have actual good people to play with.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I don't play Magic, but that issue definitely overlaps with tabletop gaming. Early into my start into the hobby, I played in a public campaign at my FLGS and the whole table was kind of sad stereotypes. Thankfully on my way out that night, I met some other folks who were looking for another player in their private game and they were all more socially adept, sanitary, and welcoming.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Working from home.

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Juggling. Friend decades ago taught me how to group juggle with other people. Lots of fun. But I've learned never to admit I'm into juggling, cuz apparently it's serial killer weird

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[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Conlangs, we could reform the language world.

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Guess i'm the first to say it, sewing. Not necessarily making things from scratch but just fixing what you got and adding features. Fairly affordable hobby, easy to get into and plenty of tutorials.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Honestly I can't narrow it down to less than 2:

  • Australian Stingless Bee "farming": as the hobby is niche, even in Australia, there isn't much publicly available advancement in hive designs, propogation methods and care techniques for native bees. This makes the barrier for entry high, and the chances of losing a hive when inexperienced is moderately high too. More people in the hobby would hopefully bring in more discussion and experimentation, and make the hobby more accessible to others by hopefully bringing the price of hives down.

  • TTRPGs/Wargaming outside of the big 2 games: if its not 40k or D&D, you are unlikely to find anyone that knows of alternate systems, let alone wants to play them. Makes it a lot harder to find a group outside of a game over discord or similar

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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Radio control airplanes. It's being regulated to death since the advent of quadcopters/drones.

[โ€“] Monster96 10 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Unity development. I'd love to work with someone that knows Unity but no one I know knows what C# is.

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[โ€“] v81 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ham Radio

Some aren't even aware the hobby still exists.

Easy to get licenced in most places, ham radios are cool pieces of clever tech. So many sub hobbies within. Digital modes, long distance, electronics, antenna design and building.

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[โ€“] rei 10 points 1 year ago

Everything I do is pretty nerdy, I just wish there were more women, gaming, chess, progamming, etc.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] Lifecoach5000 9 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Chess. Specifically I wish I knew more people irl like my friends.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago
  • Privacy

    Protects one of your fundamental rights, or nearly all of them if you think about it, as well.

  • ham radio

    Getting certified is super easy in many places and there are many hobbies within, such as electronics, building antennas, etc.

  • poetry

    This hobby has to be the cheapest of all. Go to the park with a pen and paper, bonus points if you leave your phone at home, and let your mind wander :)

[โ€“] totallynotarobot 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being poor and feeling sorry for myself

[โ€“] TheWoozy 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Gaming, particularly games from 2013 and before. ๐ŸŽฎ

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[โ€“] Hazdaz 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not claiming that there aren't a ton of people who are into RC trucks,but no one I know is into them. Bought one about a year ago and had a blast bashing it around on the beach. It's always cool to see others with similar interests and all the times I took it out, never saw anyone else into it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Learning languages. It'd be nice if I could meet people irl who are interested in learning different languages and it'd probably keep my motivation up as I've been slacking.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Karaoke. After losing my old friends circle, I no longer have anyone to go karaoke with. :(

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[โ€“] HarriPotero 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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