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I've applied for jobs a few times and this has always been a problem. Now that I've been out of college for a while it's even more of a problem. I don't have anyone from college that would even remember me. I can't use my current coworkers because I don't want my current employer to know I'm leaving until I have a new job lined up. I don't keep in touch with old coworkers. I don't do anything outside of work as far as volunteering or anything. I know I'm not supposed to use friends or family. Who is even left after that? The only people I have the contact info for are friends, family, and my current boss.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Recent graduates seeking employment in their field of study should always have their department chair write a recommendation. Having other professors write recommendations helps as well.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

There are services out there that you can pay for fake references. Basically you pay someone to let you put them down as a reference and they'll answer and say whatever it is you want them to.

I have absolutely zero idea if any of them are reputable. Never used it myself. As such, I give no links. It's definitely morally questionable and you might get scammed. Definitely DO NOT do this if it's for a security clearance.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Maybe you are overestimating how big of a deal letting your current boss know that you are job searching really is. I've used a recruiting agency multiple times that requires references from two current supervisors. It always feels awkward making that ask, but it has never been the end of the world. If you are respectful and professional about it, they should be too. You can always find a way to downplay it or spin it if you need to.

That being said, of course there are petty and belligerent bosses out there. Just take a minute and consider whether that is truly the case for you or if this would just cause the normal level of awkwardness/friction that would be expected in this situation.

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