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[–] ToiletFlushShowerScream 8 points 22 hours ago

Because someone else has already built it for us. It’s our duty to pass it on. And honestly it is the core of what it means to be human. Otherwise you’re a parasite who deserves what parasites deserve.

[–] hedge_lord 7 points 1 day ago

Today was pretty shit but there were some parts of it that were neat and I want others to be able to cherish more of the parts that were neat

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because I want the future to say nice things about me.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"...And children then there was HobbitFoot. He was just a good dude, what can I say."

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

"He was a lucky Hobbit's Foot."

[–] thefactremains 38 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

They would never build for you because you will teach them by example to build for their descendents.

“A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they know they shall never sit.” - ancient Greek proverb

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago
[–] shaggyb 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because you are not the main character of the universe.

You will leave behind consequences for your actions. The consequences of the actions of others gave you the world you have lived in, as will the consequences of your shape the world of the future.

There is nothing after death and we all know that, so all there's left to plan for after you die is the legacy of what you did while you were here.

Speaking for me, I value the idea that the consequences of my life wind up being more positive than negative for future generations. I also value feeling like I've changed things for the better now, and so when I have a platform or any influence I aim for that.

If you don't care about any of that, please seek counseling. The rest of us will be better off with fewer narcissists.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie -3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sorry, my question really hurt you.

[–] shaggyb 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We're talking about you, bud. I'm good.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

What about me? Why not just air your grievances. I won't mind.

[–] shaggyb 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Nah. You want a fight, you can look somewhere else. I've got better things to do. I said what I wanted to say.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie -1 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

I won't fight. You think I'm a narcissist. That's hurtful but ok. I apologize for however it is i transgressed against you.

How do you want me to behave differently?

Edit: should I not ask questions? Should I not be myself? Should I be nicer?

I'm a person like you. If you do not want to connect with me why engage me in such a confrontational way?

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm from yesterday. When I was a kid in the 70's, my tomorrow was the triumph of science, an evermore interconnected world of evermore educated people, the rule of individual rights and freedoms, the retreat of religion and magical thinking, fewer and fewer wars and the gradual end of poverty.

I'm very bitter today because somebody stole my future. But you can also argue that I, a man of yesterday, failed to shape the world of today too. We all failed, those of my generation.

If you're a person of today, you need to work towards a better tomorrow right now. Because if you don't, you'll end up regretting not doing it later in life like I do.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.

Your other person's tomorrow is you.

[–] surewhynotlem 4 points 1 day ago

From a purely cynical perspective: Species survival. Evolution has programmed us to desire offspring and try to ensure their ability to produce offspring. To do that, I need to make sure the world is livable for them and the next generations.

Small minded people see this and think "I just need to make it better for my kids not everyone". They're missing the big picture. They fail to see that we survive better if everyone is surviving better.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I like the idea that I was part of the foundation of something positive that will outlast a single human life time. All you have to do is not be a douch to positively impact. Maybe it's just a drop in a bucket but ocean is just a collection of drops of water.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

You build for tomorrow to leave something behind of yourself. The tree you planted, the painting you made, the building you built. They are parts of oneself that remain after our alloted time passes.

[–] bigboismith 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Not sure why this is so downvoted , it's an interesting question.

There are many things that made us shoot forward in the evolutionary arm race, but one the parts is the sharing of knowledge and values to our offspring.

Children want to learn from their parents, and parents want to teach their children in the same way they learnt from their parents.

The early humans who started this generational knowledge sharing fared better, and humans became more social and dependent on each other, while the humans focused on themselves more than their offspring perished.

It's in our nature to care for our next generation, in the same way the previous generation cared for us.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Not sure why this is so downvoted

My guess is because it's kind of an asshole sentiment and not a useful post on any way.

Until you notice that it's posted in nostupidquestions and actually is on topic.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie -2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] bigboismith 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Monke give hug, monke get hug

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

That's fine, it's the group that makes giving worthwhile not necessarily each individual. There will always be those who only take, and some who seem to only give. Build things because there is a chance that you will benefit by how others extend it before you die if that makes it seem better, but we usually benefit by progress and the chance of guessing which progress it will be it's almost always wrong.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie -1 points 23 hours ago

Monke strong.. together?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

We are monkeys that with the benefit of lots of time have developed opposable thumbs, tools, and language. We used language to describe abstract concepts in words. One of those words is "legacy." Some people are driven to build one. Some are just altruistic. The urge to create offspring is also common and with it the hope your brats will fare well. There are your reasons why some people build for a tomorrow that never pays them back.

Consider also that somebody has built the road that leads to your house, the city you're in, the hospital you go to when you're sick. Civilization is a chain of paying stuff forward for those who come after you.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Yes, pretty sure no-one is going to (be able to) look back on Gen Z and remember their achievements, except maybe in a negative way.

[–] jeffw -2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Sometimes you can be so sure about the poster’s age

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Is it a problem?

[–] shaggyb -1 points 1 day ago

May as well teach them then.