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Chronic Illness

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A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.

This is a support group, not a place for people to spout their opinions on disability.

Rules

  1. Be excellent to each other

  2. Absolutely no ableism. This includes harmful stereotypes: lazy/freeloaders etc

  3. No quackery. Does an up-to date major review in a big journal or a major government guideline come to the conclusion you’re claiming is fact? No? Then don’t claim it’s fact. This applies to potential treatments and disease mechanisms.

  4. No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.

  5. No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.

Did your post/comment get removed? Before arguing with moderators consider that the goal of this community is to provide a safe space for people suffering from chronic illness. Moderation may be heavy handed at times. If you don’t like that, find or create another community that prioritises something else.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago

The man in purple and the man in blue are way too common and normalized.

[–] jordanlund 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Three more and you have an alignment chart. :)

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Bottom 3:

nerdy looking teenager: akward stare as if me mentioning I’m disabled is the most akward thing they’ve ever witnessed

gymbro: “bro as long as you eat your proteins and lift weights it’ll go away”

rich looking privileged snob: “you’re doing this to yourself aren’t you? You just want the attention and to smooch off others. I’m calling your BS.”

[–] jordanlund 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My sister also suggests:

eSsEnTiAl OiLs!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

That's already present in the original post. "I have an amazing product for that."

[–] Twentytwodividedby7 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How would you like people to respond? I'm sure a lot of people are well-meaning, but also just morons.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Me being disabled is not your “problem” to “fix”.

Just say oh okay. And if you want to offer help, instead of offering me life advice as if being disabled means I’m somehow living my life wrong (when every single interaction with a new person is them offering life advice, it starts to feel like people assume that) just simply ask how you can help.

It’s really that simple, don’t judge, and don’t assume you know more about my illness than me.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

The specialist who diagnosed me told me to do yoga about it...