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For the visually impaired it is a Twitter screenshot from Dani Donovan, ADHD Comics, @danidonovan

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the ADHD urge to use parenthesis in every sentence (because every thought comes with additional bonus content)

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[–] ghariksforge 31 points 2 years ago

I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

[–] teft 25 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's not my fault I don't think linearly.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Reminds me how in outer wilds, the alien species writes in spirals, and replies or additional thoughts are added as branches to the spiral. It was actually inspired by the way the lead writer took notes.

[–] blueskiesoc 1 points 2 years ago

I looked at screen shots for Outer Wilds and it looks a lot like the original Mist game.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 years ago (1 children)

trying to fight that urge in academic writing every day

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)
[–] SquirrelX 11 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Are they still called footnotes if they take half the page? (I prefer parentheses though)

[–] Lamedonyx 9 points 2 years ago

Pratchett would say yes.

[–] betterdeadthanreddit 6 points 2 years ago

Yeah, it's short for "a foot of notes" and the term was coined when the standard page length was 24 inches^1^.

Footnote^1^This isn't true.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

House of Leaves thinks they are.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I hate footnotes. Every time I just wish it was added to the actual place where it is attached.

[–] blueskiesoc 1 points 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

adding those on top of my footnote citations i think my page would be half full of footnotes 😅

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

I don't know if I have ADHD, but I struggle with this as well! Sometimes I'll write a message/email and there's a paren after every other sentence.

Lately I've been making an effort to substitute with a semicolon or bridge the thoughts with a dash:

"I'm thinking this - but I also think this."

Unsure if that's a correct usage of punctuation, but I feel like it helps the sentence feel more focused and an expansion of the thought, rather than a random segue (especially with work)

Edit: realized that I had broken my own rule seconds after posting

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Iirc, you're supposed to use m-dashes for that kinda thing.

[–] Patrizsche 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Rest assured, using parentheses in sentences is not a criterion for the diagnosis of ADHD in the DSM-5

[–] blueskiesoc 1 points 2 years ago

Yup. Most ADHD symptoms are relatable to everyone to a small degree. It helps us blend in.

chameleon clinging to hand that also holds an arizona iced tea can - chameleon and can are matching shades of blue and brown

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago

Today in “oh is this also an ADHD thing”

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

The sentence in the meme isn't/doesn't contain a parenthetical though. You could just write it without the parenthesis and it still makes sense.

[–] MargotRobbie 6 points 2 years ago

Hey, I write like that sometimes! (Only sometimes though.) It feels more stream-of-consciousness-y.

[–] Pickle_Jr 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I browse by All frequently and everytime I see ADHD memes come up I start to wonder if I have ADHD 😐

[–] blueskiesoc 5 points 2 years ago

Many people who aren't ADHD can relate to ADHD symptoms, but if you see something that you can relate to, I recommend you copy it to a folder or write it down somewhere you're sure to lose it (ha ha). You can browse several ADHD communities if you have the time, and if you get a good list going, check out the posts regarding what testing looks like.

ADHD isn't becoming more common, but thanks to online communities it is becoming increasingly common for people to realize they have it. Figuring out why you do some of the things you do is a wild ride.

Anyway, have some fun, live your life, and come back here and laugh with us. Byeeee. 😊

[–] erev 4 points 2 years ago

Em dashes are so helpful too!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Hey that's me

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oh shit, I do that for every other sentence D:

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I look forward to your next sentence

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I literally just made a post and had to remove like two or three instances of this (in a maybe 100 word post). I think one or two still remain.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

It's like my mind always has sidequests and explanations.

[–] voidMainVoid 2 points 2 years ago

Parentheses

Also, doesn't Lemmy do alt text?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I'm always doing this,also I always forget to close them (once I've finished the thought I just press send

[–] Awthatsnotright 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

So I’m not the only one?! How do you control their use in work comms? I usually have to read everything over and see what I can break into sentences. I’ve also included asterisks when adding potentially superfluous info. 😂

[–] blueskiesoc 2 points 2 years ago

I have to do that to. I usually end up with bullet pointed lists.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Did Terry Pratchett have adhd?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Bonus points if you also use parenthesis in spoken conversation.

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