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[–] [email protected] 29 points 8 months ago

future you won't feel like doing it either

You didn't have to hit me like that.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Podcasts and videos at increased speeds actually resonates with me.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

I'd love some stats on what proportion of people (who know you can change the speed) listed to audio books on 1x speed. It feels so incredibly slow to me, like they are intentionally holding back on telling me what happens!

[–] sbexpert 8 points 8 months ago

I don't understand how people can watch certain things at 1x speed. I slowed down a video yesterday to 1x to rewatch something in real time and I had to triple check that I didn't accidentally hit .75x because it felt way too slow, but no, it was 1x.

[–] TrousersMcPants 7 points 8 months ago

I actually listen to podcasts and audiobooks at 90% speed a lot because I'm always doing something else while I'm listening. And some narrators on audiobooks are just really fast man

[–] stoicmaverick 10 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I want to circle back to that "burnout is always just around the corner" thing. Not incorrect, but is that meant to be helpful in some way?

[–] ickplant 10 points 8 months ago

I think it’s an important warning and also a “don’t feel like you are a loser because you are always in the verge of burnout. You are just trying to make it in a neurotypical world.”

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I feel it's important to recognize that burnout is off in the distance because eventually it will come. It's good to be prepared and be watching for the signs.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

It also means you should deal with the risk of burnout as a long-term problem. ie, don't wait until you're done this "one last death march", because there's just going to be another one after that.

Instead, figure out how to pull yourself back from the edge, and the rules you need to enforce right now and forevermore to ensure your stay employed.

[–] Thrillhouse 6 points 8 months ago

You will never find “the answer” resonates with me.