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I currently have two partners, a nesting partner and one who lives 3 hours away who used to be my domme and who might be again, who knows.

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[–] dreamsindigital01 4 points 1 year ago

My 36f wife 35f have recently decided to make our relationship officially poly. She is my primary but we live 250mi apart. She has a male meta and at the moment I have a female comet. I've been dating for the first time in 20 years and looking to find a "daily driver" partner. Its a new lifestyle for me but I'm thoroughly enjoying it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Kinda fluid! I've been open for 13 years now, and poly for 7.

I have a life partner C(nb26) that I'm getting married to this year, as well as another partner that I see frequently R(nb26). I bounce between the two nearby cities each of them live in.

I'm also in a sort of a triad with R's partner, even though they're more of a meta that a partner, we are loosely dating and engage in some sexy play here and there, either alone or amongst the three of us.

I also have comets and less established relationships that are more like intimate fwbs.

Being an introvert, it's become difficult to juggle the needs of multiple intimate relationships, and quite the learning experience, but ultimately so worth it, and it's hard to imagine ever being in a closed relationship again.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I live with my wife. My gf lives 15 min away. They are both with my meta who lives 5 min away with his wife. My gf has a nesting partner.

Looking for another partner but most of the like-minded people on dating apps appear to be 30+ min away.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Nested with my wife and we have a daughter. We are in a triad with one woman and also a semi long distance girlfriend.

[–] CodingAndCoffee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wife and bio child who live with me. My gf is in a neighboring city, who lives with her ex. Wife has a gf and 2 recently broken off ex bfs. Everyone knows each other, it's all ENM.

[–] Crackhappy 1 points 1 year ago

Sounds copacetic.

[–] rave_demon 2 points 1 year ago

I 31F have a husband 39M and a boyfriend 27M. My husband also has a girlfriend 26M that I am good friends with, and she has a primary partner 40M.