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Advice on finding a partner? (lemm.ee)

submitted 7 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I just got ghosted by the girl I was talking to, I want to find another girl to talk to. This girl and I met at the gym, but I don't want to be the guy that goes to the gym just to meet girls. I mean sure there's the bar and Tinder, but I want a real relationship. I mean, I guess it'll come to me.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

I think people are too quick to discount this advice but it's honestly the best way to find a genuine life partner. Do stuff you love and if you find someone you're interested in doing it (and they feel the same way) you have an excellent basis for a relationship.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

And if that fails, if you do hobbies you love with other people, at least you'll make new friends.