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Best I can tell they either think you're twice as horny, or they're the kind who would have been insecure about opposite sex friends because you might be attracted to them, but you're bisexual so everyone is effectively an option.
And yes, 2*0=0. As soon as I came out as bi and poly, all of my prospects dried up. I was literally invited into throuples and polycules when I identified as straight and monogamous, now it's rare enough for me to meet someone that I'm basically back the closet.
I'm curious, were there old invitations that turned out to not be legitimate? Or was there a stretch of time between those invitations and identifying as bi+poly?
They were before. I haven't reached back out, it has been a long time now.