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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by cetvrti_magi to c/[email protected]
 

It's been around a month since I started questioning my gender. I'm really confused on all of this, seeing a therapist would help but that's not an option for me at the moment (don't want to go into details about that here). Biggest source of confusion for me is the fact that there are some strong signs that I'm trans but at the same time I don't feel like a woman (nor anything othet than a man). Does this happen to trans women before egg crack or any form of transitioning? This question is a huge roadblock for me at the moment in terms of questioning, it feels like I won't get anywhere with this without finding amswer to it. It probably won't be final answer to everything but even if I'm trans transitioning would't be safe for 4-5 years so I have enough time to explore my identity.

Edit: Thank you all for responding, it's really helpful. Now I'm a bit more sure that I'm trans but I'll try to experiment in a safe way until I'm able to talk with therapist about this.

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[–] cetvrti_magi 2 points 8 months ago

I remember having daydreams of becoming a girl at one point too, it was 6-7 years ago when we talked about some LGBTQ stuff in biology class. Similar daydreams started happening around 6 months ago. Before I started questioning I tought it was just my curiosity because I'm very curious person but now it's a major red flag.