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My partner and I are starting to talk about marriage beyond just a conceptual thing π³
I canβt be sure, but I think they might have a crush on you
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OOOOOO SOMEONE'S GOT A CRUSH ON YOU!
It's just...a little crush ... not like I faint...every time we touch...
Itβs just some little thing
You can get a recognised relationship certificate if the word βmarriageβ feels wrong to you
How do you feel about it?
Good but like antsy in that "it's something new and I don't like change" kind of way? Also it's like a decision and an important one, so there's all that additional anxious excited feeling attached too!
But all positive. This is just me going through the 'omg change' phase I think. Just need to sit and get used to the idea for a little bit π
Ultimately think hard about why are you wanting to get married. What will it add to your relationship that you don't already have.
I'm quite blase about marriage. I just don't think it proves anything. I know lots of people in horrible marriages though so maybe that's why.
It's not the commitment it once was though. Now a mortgage or kids is where shit starts to get real.