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I got some kinda sad news today. So CP wanted me to move out and into lead tenant on the 15th, and I said that was way too soon and I'd want a longer transition to at least early August and proposed August 1st s my official move in date. They said no and that the best they'd give me is the 24th and I should be happy they compromised at all
I mean I guess I am lucky they compromised because usually they dont, but it's just kinda giving me flashbacks to all the random days they've told me I have a few hours to pack my bags and then they ship me off to some new house. I mean, it's still 20 days away, and I have been wanting to move out for the last 4 years, and it's only a week earlier than I was hoping for, but it kinda sucks I don't get to control my own timelines
Also the lead tenant place hasn't even given me the address yet. They gave me the street and suburb, but no number until after the 3rd meeting. I also had to pick out furnitures for my room despite not even knowing how big my room is, so that's fun
Good luck and try not to stress. You've survived well in the past and you'll survive this. hug hugs
Moving homes is one of the most stressful life events we go through, I can only imagine this is amplified in your situation. Try to be kind to yourself, and vent here all you need ❤️ you seem like a brilliant young human.
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So sorry to hear. I hope the next place will be nice but it’s never nice to uproot yourself when you’re not wanting to and also given all the unknown associated with it.
I pray for a smooth move and transition and after it’s done you need to do something nice for yourself.