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It seems you have missed the point of being in therapy. They're not a friend, they are a guide for you to use to better understand yourself. Therapy is meant to explore parts of yourself that you want to work on or that need to be addressed (such as self harm).
Some people find it difficult to think about themselves and having someone to listen to those people's explanation of their week might just shed some light for that person on why they feel a certain way about the things which happen around them.
It's also something that you must actually commit to. Going to therapy and either lying constantly or being very tight lipped about things because you feel like you are being teated/judged/analysed are not going to yield any real results compared to someone who is as open as they can possibly be about themselves.
I might be missing the point, yeah. I don't know anyone who might be struggling with depression thankfully. But in return I have no idea how ppl cure it. I heard stories about extreamly bad scenarios ppl are stuck in. And I honestly have no idea what to do in their boots. But it's also not like talking can solve parental abuse and or drinking parents (the particular story I heard).
It heavily depends on the reason for being in therapy, but a lot of times what people do get out of it is a different perspective on themselves and the world around them. It's not a cure, it's a series of plans/strategies to handle those feelings in non-destructive ways. It's about understanding where their issue stems from, sometimes it's just an imbalance of brain juices, sometimes it's something to do with their past or upbringing, or education. If it's the second one, therapy can help those people explore those parts of their past to understand the reasons why they are feeling the things they are feeling and how to mitigate or better handle those feelings.
Others have explained it fairly well too, I think you've got a decent enough handle on why therapists are a thing.