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I had my annual review at work and the only thing that I need to work on is staying focused and not socializing as much. Apparently I get involved in conversations more than I thought. I can listen to music and stuff, but earbuds make my ears hurt over time and over the ear headphones will drown out too much noise.

I work in IT as a help desk technician. When I'm not working tickets and doing my daily duties, I study for Microsoft certifications that I am required to get.

I'm the first tech in the office and I can get so much done in the 30 mins before others start showing up. At 8:30, my two fave coworkers show up and that's when my focus starts to waver because I love talking to them lol. It doesn't help that they're the people I go to the most when I encounter work that I need help figuring out.

I'm currently on focalin and my dosage is the only dose that doesn't interfere with my heart condition, so I don't want that changed.

I can't really move to another space because of how the office is set up.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Talk to your colleagues, and explain your situation. That you really appreciate their company, but that you would like their help, to keep you focused on your job. Ask them to help you to not get caught up in too much no-work talk, allow them to send you back to work "Back to work, Launches kayaks, you chatterbox!" Then do your socializing after hours, if it fits into your schedules

[–] aodhsishaj 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I second this, but also set a timer before you go and ask a question. 10 minutes for me. Also make a list of what you need to touch on so you have a structure. Try to keep the fun non work talk at lunch or down time.

Try to keep your studies up, apply what you're learning at work.

Good luck, it's a journey.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Good idea with the timer and list