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What "little" experiences changed the way you percieved things ? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by needthosepylons to c/[email protected]

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Idk if "little experience" means something in English, but what I meant is non-life changing/threatening. Things that would otherwise go unnoticed.

For me, it was when I stopped drinking acoholic beverages because.. I ended up finding it boring, I guess.

I started noticing how low key hostile my environment is towards people who dont drink. People started thinking I was sick, depressed, converted to islam, being snob, etc.

Bartenders started to openly mock me when I asked for a lemonade (they still do) : "We dont do that here", "Go to a physician if you need that", "you're in a bar you know ?".

I started realizing how hostile my country/region/groups can be to people who dont drink. Never realized that before.

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[–] needthosepylons 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks again for sharing your thoughts (even though yes, yes can only be based on an incomplète picture, but still !)

I think I understand what you mean and I agree I wouldn't want to act based on "what could have been". I think I'm currently actively looking for stability, be it at the expense of other aspects. Whether it's a good or bad thing in the long run is another story, and one I'm currently doubting about, but what's certain is, let's say a month ago, I was 100% commited to that choice, with the benediction of future me.

So I guess that's something..! Anyway, thanks for helping me put things into perspective, kind and wise stranger :)