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How do you usually handle paying for dates? (sh.itjust.works)

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I'm bisexual, and trans. I've been on dates with men, and women, presenting as both a man and a woman. I usually just pay for myself, or awkwardly fail to turn them down when the other person offers to pay.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Ace guy here, and I usually offer to pay. It's not a hard rule or anything, it's just something i was taught to do by my ma and sisters, but If it doesn't jive with them and they'd rather go half and half or pay for their own meal, that's perfectly cool too.