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I hate to have my time monopolized. I hate having things sprung on me where I have to make a decision between saying yes, and doing something I don’t want to do, or saying no, and feeling like shit for refusing somebody’s request.
I also hate people who are inconsiderate
Me too. I have a bad fixation on time. Sometimes I even force myself to stay up later because I don't want to waste conscious time even though I'm too tired to do anything of worth.
I also despise surprises and I often knee jerk react to sudden information poorly.