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How large were your physical changes and how large, if any, were the social ones? Related to anything you feel comfortable sharing, e.g. socializing/meeting new people, work, dating etc.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

There's a lot that I could say, but having gone from being your typical scrawny nerd to decently muscular, the single biggest thing has been a massive boost to my own self-confidence. While I wouldn't say I ever actively disliked it, I had no idea how good it would feel to look of myself in the mirror and actually be happy with what I see. That in general has had pretty huge effects on me socially. I'm a lot more outgoing, dating is way way easier (disclaimer: am gay, and men are pigs), and I just generally find it a lot easier to connect with others now that I'm not constantly doubting myself.