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As a long time Reddit user, there's something about Lemmy and the fediverse that feels really refreshing and new. I think it has to do with a few things...

  1. People are more respectful of each other and interested in discussion and being social.
  2. Less trolls (users are probably older?)
  3. Due to it not being absolutely huge, I feel like people will actually see my posts and comments instead of being lost in a sea of content. I suppose once Lemmy grows this will change, however the cool thing about the fediverse are the new servers. So you can stick to the server when you want smaller community discussion and go to "all" when you want more populated threads.
  4. The clean UI feels refreshing and clean, almost like the early internet.

What have you noticed? Do you find it refreshing too?

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[โ€“] jrs100000 86 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Ok so let me throw out some old timer wisdom. This is what the social media/forums/the Internet are like when the cream is skimmed off and the 90% of users who only browse, and the 8% who only vote are gone. Enjoy it while you can. The summer always ends.

[โ€“] Noedel 26 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Absolutely, my first thought was this is what internet was in the 90s and 00s. Slow, good yarns, and lame jokes.

Tbh there's already too many memes here though. Half my front page is 196 and German me_irl sometimes.

[โ€“] jrs100000 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yea but dont be too hard on the kids. We were sticking frogs in virtual blenders and abusing the /blink/ tag at their age, so let them have their fun.

[โ€“] samus12345 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can block those communities if you want.

[โ€“] Noedel 5 points 1 year ago

I guess I want some memes not all memes

[โ€“] champion 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I personally browse the Subscribed feed sorted by Top of the Day and my feed is memes free. I do have the problem though where half of my feed is news articles posted by bots even though I am subscribed to 40+ (non-news) communities

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was a bit late one the social media train, isn't that where the "Eternal September" thing came from?

[โ€“] AnyOldName3 21 points 1 year ago

That's because way back in the past, every September, a bunch of students who'd never had home internet access would have access via university for the first time. It would take some time for them to pick up the culture, so there'd be a month or so of questionable posts.

[โ€“] yads 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The funny thing is on Reddit I was mostly a lurker/content consumer. There was little incentive to actually post because your post or comment was likely to just be drowned out in the absolute torrent of other posts/comments. Here I'm actually able to be heard.

[โ€“] darkan15 3 points 1 year ago

I was mostly a lurker/content consumer. There was little incentive to actually post

This is me in almost every mayor social network I have an account, I like it here because it feels like the community is better even if it is smaller, but I have never been the type to make posts or comment (mostly I just browse and vote/like) outside the very few occasions there is a tech/programming question I need/can help with.

I'm trying to participate here a bit more than I'm used to, though.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

This is exactly it. I haven't come across a forum where the "summer syndrome" wasn't permanently present in a decade. I'll be lurking around here to see if this is going to finally be it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unfortunately some communities don't seem to exist without the froth. The FIRE community seems difficult to recreate here, or local subs. But do you all remember when r/Bitcoin was mostly programmers?

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The FIRE community could use the existing Mr. Money Mustache forums. Only hiccup is, I believe, that it is difficult to get a new account (not sure why that is, maybe that's an old problem and it's easier now). I've lurked that forum for years; they seem like a friendly, helpful, well regulated, un-frothy bunch.

[โ€“] neanderthal 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I love The Good Place! To get a Mr money mustache account, you have to know the answers to a few questions covered by the blog. If anyone needs help, PM me. I'm a long time follower of the FIRE community and can assist.

If bad Janet poops because she chooses to and ends conversations with long farts, I'm a bit afraid of what a very bad Janet does...