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According to an employee at the restaurant, the supposed priest urged employees to “get the sins out.”

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[–] solidgrue 7 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Objectively, what is the difference between a "real priest" and a "fake priest?"

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

sanctioning by some governing religious authority. Like the Catholic church.

alternatively, this guy wasn't a cleric at all and only hired to pretend to be one. from the article it sounds like he was basically a paid actor.

[–] solidgrue 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

You can send $65 to the Unitarians to get a card that entitles you to officiate weddings and administer rites. I did, and I have. Heck, for a beer I'll listen to your sins and suggest you a few more while I tell you it's OK not to stress about it.

How is that any different? Asking for my atheist friends.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

it's "Official".
I mean, I get it. (particularly because I'm an atheist myself). but like Pretty sure the guy was literally just a paid actor trying to get people to nark on themselves. the employer is insane, though.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

In many cases, a priest, minister, or pastor has received education in counseling, theology, and ministerial care. While one might discount the necessity of theological education, a good seminary will ensure that there is a foundation from which emotional support might be offered.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

There's an authority that "official" priests answer to. They can face punitive action for breaking rules set forth by their established body... just like any other job.

Sure, you got a certificate that says you can do a thing... but you don't have a job because of that. If you did get a job from that, it would be somewhat similar, but it's not.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As in “Unitarian Universalist?” That seems sketchy, for them.

[–] solidgrue 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I got the card, tho. I did weddings!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m saying there are different religions/sects that people consistent with Unitarian.

[–] solidgrue 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I’m saying there are different religions/sects that people consistent with Unitarian.

I'm not sure what you mean here,

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

And a poor one, at that. They get $2000 each – after lawyer fees? And back wages.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Flaky_Fish69 what if they're protestant and have no religious authority? i'm guessing the "religious authority" would be "the will of the people"? idk, maybe if the restaurant employees they could command the Priest title onto this guy

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The vast majority of denominations have a body that decides what they as a denomination believe.

Kind of what makes them a denomination. Unitarians are weird in that they specifically don’t give a damn.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Which is good. Their basic tenants, as far as I can recall, are “be kind, be responsible, everyone messes up sometimes.” It’s been a very long time since I attended a service, there are none in my corner of the world. Lots and lots of Baptists, Southern Baptists and Methodists that are breaking from the umc, though.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I think in this case, it is because:

  1. The priest is not associated with any official church
  2. The priest is intensionally hired by the employer to spy on employees.
[–] solidgrue 1 points 1 year ago

I like your rationale.

We've defined Fake Priest. Nice.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm an atheist -- but I think there's a real ethical difference between intellectually honest true believing priests, and charlatans/predators who are cynically taking advantage of the trust some people put in the position. And it seems like this article is talking about the latter.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Yeah with the real believers there is no chance for redemption, they’ll always be idiots.

I’ll take the fakes preying on idiots over the idiots themselves any day.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The difference isn’t just that one is Some Guy and one is Some Guy Who Went To Seminary, the difference is that confessions are supposed to be kept confidential (between the person, their priest, and arguably God), not “confidential” (between the person and the priest, who then rats them out to the boss.)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah, a real priest understands that he is expected to die rather than reveal anything he heard in confession, while this guy was passing everything along to the boss.

[–] derf82 1 points 1 year ago

Confession is covered by confessional privilege under both governmental laws and church law. What you say goes no farther.

But a random guy can tell whomever whatever, and it seems the employer was deliberately trying to get dirt on his employees.

So yes, there is a pretty huge difference.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago