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What would be a good sign coming out of such people?

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[–] [email protected] 69 points 1 year ago (4 children)

When they do not return the grocery cart to the cart corral.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I'd say it's conditional. At a certain point, it's on the business themselves. For example, a giant parking lot with one or two cart returns only, in a front corner.

A massive sprawling Walmart parking lot with only one return, and I had to park really far away, and it's super busy and trying to get the cart to the return requires going through multiple rows? I'm a goodie two shoes who will clean up after others, and tries to improve places... but I've got limits with time, effort, and desire to deal with crowds of people in parking lots.

If they have good placement though, then yes, it's absolutely on the individual.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Unless you have a medical reason for not being able to walk to the front to return it, you're still an asshole if you don't.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is the kind of balanced, nuanced take that will get you absolutely murderlated with downvotes.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

"But I have to walk a bit further!" Is not a reason to be an inconsiderate asshole

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

I doubt you can judge someone as bad based off that

EDIT: I'm gonna go with better terms here: Not responsible enough and ignorant, I still don't believe someone can be considered bad as a person for this.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

There are two main reasons you wouldn't return carts to a cart return location:

  1. Fuck them people

  2. My time is worth more than this

At the very least the person is inconsiderate, and worst a complete psychopath. Both are not great signs, and all the ones between are also not positive aspects.

You'd think something that small wouldn't be much of an indication on a person's overall nature, but it's nearly always the little things that add up to the whole thing.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Yes. How one thinks of/treats hired help is a big clue.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I understand where you are coming from, but most people who do this at times are more likely just ignorant than even "fuck them people". In-fact, the walmart near me has a guy waiting outside along with the security most of the time to collect carts once the store closes, so many people are like "he is going to collect all the leftover carts anyways".

Especially for those who have parked their cars a bit away, I really doubt such people are going to return all the way just to put a cart on the cart return location, rather than just putting the car on the side and just take off with their car.

To make things worse, there are staff on stores often these days that organize and collect leftover carts, so it's been a while since I have seen a good chunk of people return their carts to their return location, especially from parking lots, unless they are close to that return spot.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Most if not all big box stores have cart corrals out in their parking lots where you are meant to return the carts so that they can be collected more efficiently without having some employee run all over collecting carts. Andtheres the matter of run away carts especially if it's a windy day. Those carts can really get moving and cause some damage to cars parked out in the lot. No one is saying to take them back to the entrance of the store, simply to put them in the collection point so they don't wander.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

OP doesn’t put his cart back! Shame!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Wow, arguing another perspective (with a valid arguement) made me a victim, RIP

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

There's two possible scenarios

  1. you think your time is more valuable than others, thus making you an asshole
  2. you simply don't give a fuck about inconveniencing others, again making you an asshole
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

It's actually a great indicator as to their view of the social contract and obligations to others.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cart Narcs demonstrates that you can lol

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Someone sounds like they are projecting...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (38 children)

I find the people who judge others based on cart return status are the real assholes.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just put your cart back already.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I had this discussion on here a week or so ago. I guess I'm just lucky enough to live somewhere where the summers are mid 80s and the winters are high 50s. My three friends who got jobs at the local Target all said that the best part of their day was collecting carts.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They still collect carts if you put them where they’re supposed to be, it’s just a safer job, because they are where cars expect them to be instead of all over the parking lot fishing lone carts out of bushes and off medians

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This is such a strange phenomenon to me. In all the countries I've lived in, all but a few select stores have a dongle on each cart that takes a coin to unlock it from the chain of other carts. It's perhaps the cost of a back of toilet paper, but that seems to be sufficient for it to be exceedingly rare to see an abandoned cart. One can only imagine that any such carts are quick prey for enterprising teens looking for a quick boost to their candy fund.

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