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How prevalent is the topic of mental health in America compared to Germany? (self.nostupidquestions)

submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by wondering_mind to c/nostupidquestions

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Hey there, I'm from Germany and have mental health issues such as depression and was wondering how prevalent this topic is in America.

Here in Germany this topic has become extremely normal and pretty much everyone seems to openly talk about it even with strangers sometimes. We have a lot of therapists but it's often hard to get an appointment since medical care in Germany is free and they have overwhelming numbers of people and the therapists don't have enough availability to accommodate everyone. The therapists I had so far were pretty good since they really seemed to care about me and often did overtime and such to talk.

I wonder if it's similar in America that a lot of people go to therapy and openly talk about mental health. What is the situation in America like? Do you have many therapists (especially in rural areas) and how easy is it to get in/finance? Or would you say this topic is generally more frowned upon in America in comparison?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 days ago

I've seen it vary widely from place to place (America is pretty big, after all).

I would say the prime candidate to be open to talking about mental health in America is a young (~15-25), wealthy, city-living person. As you move away from those traits, the less likely the person is to being candid about their mental health (i.e. older, poorer, and rural-living people are less likely to talk about it).

There's definitely some taboos about speaking about it among blue-collar workers. It seems like there was a push a decade or so ago to start doing psyche evals for people who worked in heavy machinery. I knew one guy who (as a wave of psyche evals ame through) was dropped from his machinist job (that he'd done for 20+ years without injuring hisself or others) after telling the doc he had 1-3 beers almost every night. Cause for firing was that "he is a hazard to himself and the people he worked with". I know everyone else in that shop clamped their mouths shut about any depression, anxiety, and sleep issues after that.

Word is they've gotten a lot better about how they conduct them, but the point is that among blue collar workers, it feels like talking about mental health issues has (historically) been a fast track to losing the ability to put bread on the table.

I do white collar work now, and on this side of the wall, its definitely a lot less taboo. There's still a stigma about it, but that could just be my own anecdotal experience.

All that is to say, there's a history of mental health being used to harm people, so its not yet an open subject, but that taboo is lifting, if not exactly quickly.