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Maybe this is everyone's experience as they get older, falling out of fashion and balking at the latest trends.

BUT. I really think there's something uniquely terrible about this moment in (clothing) history.

I can appreciate elements of fashion from pretty much every era...from jazz age glam to swinging cocktail dresses and just about everything from the set of Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, to the pencil skirts and cat-eye makeup of the 60s, to 80s punk and 90s heroin chic, to the dELiA's catalogues of my coming-of-age and the midriffs of the 2000s.

But these days I dread shopping. Why are shirts cut like pillowcases and dresses cut like potato sacks? What's the point of a sweater knit so loosely the wind blows right through, or a neck cut so wide the sleeves fall down your shoulders? Speaking of, why are the shoulders/armpits in a women's "small" cardigan roomy enough for the Rock?

It all seems so frumpy, and not even functional. Aren't clothes meant to accentuate the body, rather than hide it? How are you other non-Gen Z women adapting to current fashion?

P.S. I will admit that having higher rise jeans is nice. It took me a while to get on board, but now I can see how the low rise skinny jean gave us all chicken legs ;)

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm a man, so I'm only talking about aesthetics here, but I like the over the shoulder neck and loose shirts. They're casual.

[–] ClarissaXDarjeeling 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The mechanics are so frustrating ...

  1. Off-the-shoulder means cold shoulders
  2. Off-the-shoulder means limited bra options
  3. Off-the shoulder usually limits your arm movement
  4. ...or you have to be very careful that things don't slip too far and reveal a nip
  5. Mesh and gauze is just right out - pointless fabrics!
  6. These super loose and flowy shirts are hard to keep tucked in, so then my side flank gets cold
  7. ...or if it's long enough enough to tuck, it results in a balloon of fabric that makes me look pregnant
  8. Just to confirm, cause this is still hard for me to wrap my head around ... you ACTUALLY find this kind of thing cute?

https://www.everlane.com/products/womens-drapey-square-shirt-kalmata https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/bl-nk-miranda-peasant-blouse2 https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/by-anthropologie-mini-tulle-layer https://www.nordstrom.com/s/off-the-shoulder-top/7476942 https://www.nordstrom.com/s/ceres-off-the-shoulder-satin-blouse/7460847

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The 4th one is very cute. No to the first three. The 5th is fine.

Edited, missed a couple of the links