It's really not hard to please both camps. Lemmy is different from Reddit in that you can provide a text body even for link posts, and the etiquette is to use it to provide a short summary.

In this case, give the top few reasons WINE 10 is interesting, and perhaps provide a link to the changelog. Then if I want to watch a video I can, or if I can't but can read an article/changelog, I can do that instead, and maybe I'll come back to the video later if I'd like more explanation.

But just posting a YouTube video with a clickbait title feels like the rest of the internet that I'm trying to avoid by coming here, and I consider it rude.