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I've squirreled something away and now I can't find it (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/adhd

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I'm so frustrated with myself. No clue when was the last time I've seen this thing (wallet of crochet hooks). Yesterday I searched every project bag, every bag of my yarn stash, every drawer, nook and cranny where I might have put it absent-mindedly. I just went through them all again today. I have memories of seeing it on the breakfast table, on my desk (where the cat tried to annihilate the decorative tassle on its zipper), and in a project bag. I've moved it somewhere. I want to start a new project but need a hook of unusual size that is in the wallet. I haven't been motivated to crochet in a while, and I caught a spark over the weekend by finishing up another project. Blegh. Fuck.

Thank you for reading my rant while I wallow in self-loathing.

P.S. This thing is neon fucking pink and bigger than a paperback book. I must have a forgotten project bag smushed into a closet or left out in the camper. I thought I accounted for all my half-started projects though.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This advice always gets downvoted, but it works for me. I'll offer it for what it is.

When I lose something I'll take a moment and politely ask the thieving house elves to give it back. Then I stop thinking or stressing about it. I usually find it within a day.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I will leave out some of my Trader Joes dark chocolate peanut butter cups as an offering. I hope this pleases the Fae.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Pizza, they like pizza.

[–] rowinxavier 10 points 1 week ago

My strategy is to pretend I have it and start looking for where I can put it with gradually increasing stress. I try to hold something of similar size and imagine I am running late. Usually works, and if not now I am also stressed, so bonus.