My comment will only mean something if you understand that I am actually a moderate. I have voted for both parties. I don't vote for politicians. I vote for policies. Policies that I think make sense and actually work. As a for instance I am against the banning of abortion, but think there should be some time limit based on when the fetus could survive outside the mother. I think that's a moderate position.
When I first took a break from reddit and came over to lemmy I just lurked around. I didn't sign up. I wanted to see if it would actually get off the ground. Present were the usual political groups mostly all expressing democrat/progressive opinions. As with reddit this is expected since these types of communities are comprised mostly of young people who are mostly on the progressive side of politics.
On the conservative side there were only a few groups as would be expected. Reddit also has few but they are allowed to exist and most use a flair based system. So if conservatives what to discuss policies they are not overwhelmed by non conservatives. Simply put you need to message the mods and tell them why you are a conservative to get flaired or auto mod will hold your post or comment pending mod review. I do not think lemmy has this feature. I think that communities dedicated to a specific political view should not have to be brigaded by those who disagree with them.
The thing that I found interesting on lemmy is that the few other conservative groups were all banned along with their creators and mods. This was documented via the mod logs. I of course never read every post or comment but I never once saw someone threatening others or calling for violence. Apparently they were banished because of their political views. I no longer remember the group name but one of the banned groups simply posted news articles that called into question some democrat party policies.
Coming full circle I'm not really interested enough in politics to join any political groups. I just wanted to post my observations as to how lemmy seems to handle them.
Lemmy is literally made by tankies. lemmy.world is filled with /politics types.
Im a right winger, and Im used to the weird opinions, but it feels concetrated here. Like today, I said that schools shouldn't keep secrets from parents. Got heavily downvoted for it, and a bunch of replies.
That's because you were supporting a policy that explicitly permits an action that can lead to children being harmed. When somebody outs another person as being LGBTQ+ it can fuck up their lives hard. Teachers and councilors shouldn't be able to do that. It is a policy that directly undermines the trust students have in their teachers and councilors.
It’s my right to disown any queer children I may or may not have, and it’s the school’s duty to help. I presume that’s the opinion of the people downvoting you.
I could never be so proud to be so hateful. And I thought the republican party claimed to be the party of personal responsibility, and therefore, the responsibility to provide for your children no matter what?
I don't mind at all.
conservatives have been scapegoating assorted minorities and disempowered people since the Industrial Revolution. The hate’s baked in! Might as well put it on the label.
And I mind the downvotes, because they’re indicative of bigots. Fun to see who they are from kbin, though.
You told your parents everything? GTFO of here.
Edit: I 100% knew it was you I responded to earlier LOL.
You never replied back, though…
I get too many weirdos to reply to them all. TBH, i could just copy and paste a reply to them all.
OK - So do you think bad parents should get 100 of a child’s private thoughts / information simply because they are guardians?
What is the copy / paste answer for that?
Edit: for what it’s worth, if my kids are afraid to tell me something so personal, that’s a me issue. It means that I haven’t built my relationship with them well enough for them to trust me to be a safe and secure person and I have lost the privilege of their private thoughts / information.
But that’s just me, taking personal responsibility rather than expecting that level of trust without putting the effort in. Maybe you expect to have full authoritarian control of your own children, and that’s your MO.
Probably something to the effect of "Teachers are not keepers of secrets. That's not their job, nor are they trained to do it. They are also not guardians, and they would hampering the job of the kid's actual guardians."
You misunderstood - didn’t mean to imply that the teachers are guardians.
the exact same thing would happen on reddit which is why their flair policy stops every even remotely political opinion from turning into a shit show. I am not endorsing or condemning reddit or lemmy but simply pointing out the differences so far.