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I am not sure how to commemorate with a present. I talked about it, but she said last year can't get better.

Last year I said I was going for bird feed and groceries, came home with a bottle of wine, bonbons and a big ass vase filled with 24 flowers and presented the gifts in stages 'ooh yeah forgot this one'. She was already happy with the choco.

One hand shopping bag, other arm vase and flowers because it did not fit in a bag walking home on icy pavement, I don't have a driver license so had to tread carefully, could have broken the vase, my legs and neck.

Maybe I'll finally go on my knees and ask her to marry? We argue sometimes who should propose. I just don't want to jinx our relationship.

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[–] AtHeartEngineer 38 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

If you've been together for 25 years you practically are married, it's just paperwork at that point.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

We already call eachother husband and wife often. I guess it is not that important to us, but we joke sometimes about who will kneel first. Maybe we could make it something fun. It would be just a few people around though, nothing fancy.

[–] ickplant 6 points 3 weeks ago

In my state, you’d be considered common-law married. Might as well get married-married. If you both want it, that is.

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