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Why do lesbians take longer to realise they’re gay? (medium.com)
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[–] jesterraiin 3 points 1 year ago

It needs a bit of clarification: only good/passable looking girls get free "gay" pass. Old, ugly (or both) les women aren't perceived as "socially acceptable" either.

I guess it's because we're hardwired to respond on every level to subjectively aesthetically pleasing, evocative images.