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Off My Chest

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  • Going to work
  • Paying off loans
  • Finishing a project
  • Mastering a hobby

It's all just...never-ending. I can't do it all...or really any of it. The rest of my life looks like a never-ending stagnant grind right now. I've really tried to finish anything, but when the timeline is years?! How do I even do this when I've only got like...50 years left? And MOST of that time is grinding a job?

"Start now" I hear you all say. I've done that. Everything is indefinitely unfinished. I don't have the time to commit to it, for another hobby or interest is more engaging.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I believe this is what children do for a person. They give you a continuity that doesn't seem so monotonous. Just my take. I never wanted kids but did have them and it seems this way for me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

I believe there is some truth to that. I'm a single and poor male, so kids aren't something viable for me.