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Looking for ideas of where to move next. Places in the US that are lgbt friendly, and preferably have good trans healthcare. I'll probably never be able to move to any of them, but it would be nice to pretend for a little while.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I'm just south of that area now. I'm considering moving up there, but no plans yet. I haven't had great experiences with healthcare in the area and it's making me not want to stay

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'ma second MN, but a little norther: Duluth :3 It's extremely white up here but all' the hunams are very nice and helpy, and Essentia is a lovely health system as far as I'm able to see (rather, the people in it are wonderful :3 ). There are waitlists for everything, though. Uhhhmmm... dunno if you're as poor as I am but services for stuff relevant to that are pretty available. Easier if you can handle phone calls. Responses are mostly by mail.

Also, we have pride events that bring critters up from Minne(apolis) so I think probably reasonably pridey <.< I struggle to go outside much though :-\ Oh, and we're on the biggest of the 10,000ish lakes in the state ;3

Also, like the Twin Cities have Minne and the boring one, the Twin Harbors have Duluth and the crappy cheesy one ๐Ÿ˜… At least, I hear the water's bad over there. Our tap water rocks! Is delicious!

Anyway, is nice here I think. wiggles farewellily, skitters away

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Oooh, good tap water sounds nice. I'm stuck with some of the hardest water in the state of Ohio (Calcium, ain't shit i can do about it unless landlords feel like installing a water softener) and it is disgusting (and ruins my hair...)