as I understand it, any delivery point that belongs to you can be traced back to your name.

Pretty much yeah.

The defense I used here in Finland was that since you can't trace who sent it and there's no verified money traffic from me to a drug dealer, they can't really prove it's me.

If I knew your address, I could send you a bag of drugs. Would that make you a criminal? Even if you didn't want it? If it does, then shouldn't I just mail anyone I don't like in the US some weed, basically?

My point is I don't know how the laws about that sort of thing work over there, but I knew how they worked here, so I was at customs several times telling them I don't know shit about any drugs that came to my address. They knew that I knew that they knew that I knew that they knew. You know? But it didn't matter the slightest, because there was no way of connecting me to the drug order. I think I even bought the bitcoin from my account, but it's like if you had taken out cash at an atm. Ofc drugs are bought with cash, but factually connecting you taking cash from your account to you using it to buy drugs is something they have a hard time doing.

But yeah, I knew how these things worked here. They just always had to drop the charges despite it being extremely clear I was guilty, because no evidence. So I'm not gonna suggest anything for you, as the sentences are a bit harsher for all drug things in the US. Well, except for weed, since it's legal in some states. Even though it's still illegal on the federal level. Crazy.